On at least 5 occasions every time I go out for a drive, some hottie gets all uptight if I want to change lanes. You know the type, the person that will immediately accelerate as hard as they can, as soon as your blinker goes on, so they can close the gap.
Because those few seconds are so damned important...
As some of you know, I had a car accident a few years ago, in which my passenger was killed. Although I don't remember the accident, the investigating police officer told me that I had been travelling at 60km/hr, round a 45km/hr marked corner, on a dry road, in a 100km/hr zone. Some gravel had washed out onto the road. My left rear wheel hit the gravel, and in less than a second, I had oversteered into a tree and killed my best mate. Consider that, had I been travelling at the speed limit (which the car was more than capable of doing), the time between gravel and impact would have been less than 1/2 a second. How quick are your reflexes?
It's something that you never forget, and it can happen at any time, anywhere. I've been to many many track days (the corner onto the back straight at wakefield is a carbon copy of the corner on which I crashed) and I know the limits of my car. I stay very very clear of them and always keep a huge margin in reserve. It's still perfectly possible to go out for a relaxing, enjoyable drive without approaching or exceeding the limits of the car or yourself.
It's also why I don't go on many organised drives anymore. Too many times I have been confronted with someone, often a member of this forum, taking stupid risks when driving, and also often taking away or reducing the margins of safety I have left for myself. The road simply isn't the place for it.