I'm with others, just disconnect the rear sway instead of using a 'spring' or have a custom made sway bar that allows the lever point to be very close to center of the bar http://www.mako.com.au/
How have you calculated the weight transfer that the sway bar manages? What level of grip do you have in a corner? Is the issue driver or mechanical? Why is it so important to remove any roll "own to plus or minus 0.5kg/mm in roll"? Be interested to see the mathematics/data/logic used to reach your solution.
This is what you should be using, not a coil spring...
